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What Is Jiaobei?

Ever since I was young, I watched my mum use jiaobei — also known as Moon Blocks — during important praying ceremonies such as the Hungry Ghost Festival, Qingming Festival, and many other traditional occasions. Back then, I never really understood what jiaobei was or why it was so important.

After every prayer, my mum would toss the jiaobei to seek an answer. She would then tell us whether we could clear away the offerings or if we needed to wait a little longer because the deity or our departed relatives had not yet arrived to receive the blessings or finish enjoying the food offerings.

What Is Jiaobei

The Meaning of Chopsticks

Have you ever wondered how chopsticks came about and why Chinese people traditionally use them for eating? These simple utensils carry thousands of years of history, symbolism, and philosophy. In fact, chopsticks have been used for more than 3,000 years.

Archaeologists discovered bronze chopsticks dating back to around 1200 B.C. at the Ruins of Yin near Anyang in Henan Province, China. Originally, chopsticks were used mainly for cooking rather than eating. Over time, they gradually evolved into everyday dining utensils during the Han Dynasty (200 B.C. – 200 A.D.), eventually spreading across Asia by around 500 A.D.

The Meaning of Chopsticks

Fruits for Offerings: What to Use and Avoid in Buddhist and Ancestral Prayers

Do you know which fruits are appropriate to offer to the Buddhas, Bodhisattvas, and your ancestors – and which ones should be avoided?

When I was young, praying to the gods and ancestors on important days was a significant event in my household. I vividly remember two whole sugar canes with roots, each tied with red threads and adorned with a yellow paper lantern. Alongside them stood a table filled with plates of fresh fruits and flowers for the Buddhas, and another with meats, biscuits, and cakes for our ancestors. A tall stack of joss paper was always prepared for burning, symbolically sent to our ancestors for use in the afterlife.

Fruits for Offerings What to Use and Avoid in Buddhist and Ancestral Prayers

Supernatural Games that Open a Gateway

Do you know any supernatural games that open the gateway to a dark, hostile and incomprehensible world? Have you played them before or heard anything about it? Read on and let me tell you more about it.

Some of you might have read that in some of my true ghost stories and Chinese superstitions, I have often referred to examples in Mr Zhou’s Ghost stories. If you are not familiar with Mr Zhou’s Ghost stories, it is a radio segment hosted by Singaporean actor/DJ Dennis Zhou and DJ Nana/Chen Lina, every Friday from 11 pm to 12 midnight (except during Chinese New Year periods and holiday season), at Singapore Love 97.2fm. You can also listen to their podcasts from November 2017 till present with MeListen and Spotify apps.

supernatural Games That Open Gateway

Chinese Culture: Do you believe in spirit babies?

In Chinese culture, they are called 婴灵 (Yīng Líng). They are believed to be the souls of babies who were aborted, miscarried, stillborn, or who died shortly after birth. Often, they are not properly buried—especially in cases of abortion in hospitals, where remains may be disposed of as medical waste. In many cases, they are also not given a name or a memorial tablet.

According to Chinese beliefs, these souls are helpless and may linger in the human world, unable to be reborn. This is thought to be especially true for those who were aborted, as their circumstances may give rise to resentment or unrest. Some believe that such spirits may haunt their loved ones—particularly their biological mother—bringing misfortune or harm to the family.

Chinese Culture Spirit Baby

Take a Look at Traditional Chinese Funeral Mourning Clothing

Today, I want to take you back in time—to a tradition that is quietly, and rapidly, fading away: traditional Chinese funeral mourning clothing.

Take A Look At Chinese Funeral Mourning Clothing

What to prepare for the Return of the Soul Night Day 7

Two years ago, I wrote an article on Day 7 The Return of The Dead Night, and only briefly wrote about the dos and don’ts of the night. After watching the collaboration between the Hellbank YouTube channel with Affinity Funeral Service’s video, it prompted me to do some research through my relatives and friends in Singapore on what to prepare for the Return of the Soul night.

Just a word of warning, this does not apply to all Chinese people or religions, it is mostly what Chinese people believe in Singapore. It is mainly Chinese superstitions or customs that have been passed down the generations, you can choose to believe it or not.

What to prepare for the Return of the Soul Night Day 7 food

Cremation: The Final Journey of Bone Picking

In my previous post, I shared the experience of exhuming my grandfather’s remains before they were sent for cremation. After the contractors carefully cleaned the bones, they were taken to the crematorium for the next stage of the journey. But what happens after cremation?

What I am sharing here is based solely on the experiences of my uncle and a close friend. These are Chinese funeral customs that some families continue to practise after cremation. They are shared here purely for reference, as traditions vary greatly between countries, cultures, and religions. Not every Chinese family follows the same rituals, and practices may differ depending on dialect group, beliefs, and personal preferences.

Cremation The Last Journey of Bone Picking

Exhuming Your Loved Ones: Family Views

This year Qing Ming Festival/Tomb Sweeping fell on the 4th April 2024. It saddens me that yet again, I have not been able to pay my respects to my dad and my grandparents on this festival. There are a couple of reasons for this: my family are in Singapore so it takes some preparation to plan a long haul trip from Britain. Also, it is not easy to fly over due to school term and travel costs.

Exhuming Your Loved Ones Family Views

Chinese Culture: Pregnancy Taboos

On Mr Zhou’s Ghost Stories live radio last Friday, guest speaker Genesis (Top 3 finalist for Be A Podcaster) shared a story about her relatives’ pregnancy. This prompted me to ask my mum about the pregnancy taboos she followed when she was younger.

These taboos are largely considered old wives’ tales. Whether you choose to believe them is entirely up to you—they are shared here for cultural interest and entertainment purposes.

Chinese Culture Pregnancy Taboos

Chinese Table Manners To Observe

Once a month, I meet up with a group of Chinese friends from different backgrounds — the PRC, Taiwan, Malaysia and, of course, Singapore.

One habit that always catches my attention is when someone sticks their chopsticks vertically into a bowl of rice or food. For me, that is a huge no-no. Let me tell you why.

Chinese Table Manners To Observe

Chinese Superstition: Ji Shi Teng Ward Off Evil Spirits

Is Ji Shi Teng 鸡屎藤 (a Chinese medicinal vine herb) able to ward off evil spirits? According to the older generation — like my mum and some of my elderly relatives — they truly believe so! I first came across Ji Shi Teng while listening to Mr Zhou’s Ghost Stories podcast on 13 May 2022.

Chinese Superstition can Ji Shi Teng Ward Off Evil Spirits

Chinese Superstition: The Umbrella Taboo

Several years ago, I wrote an article about gifts to avoid buying for Chinese people, and one of the items was an umbrella. Today, I would like to expand on the Chinese superstitions surrounding the umbrella taboo in Chinese culture. In feng shui, it is believed that, when used correctly, an umbrella can bring luck and wealth. However, if used incorrectly, it may bring misfortune. Do you believe it?

Chinese Superstition: Umbrella Taboo

Why you should never hang clothing out overnight?

I hadn’t heard of this taboo of never hanging clothing out overnight until I heard from Mr Zhou’s Ghost Stories podcast. Some people believe that hanging clothing at night will attract wandering spirits to get attached to the clothing. It will cause us to have bad luck. I will list a few examples later in the post.

Why you should never hang clothing out overnight?

Chinese Customs To Observe When Moving House

Buying your new home is a very proud moment for you and your family. It is likely one of the most expensive purchases you will make and therefore it’s a big deal for everyone involved. Many Chinese people observe or believe in several Chinese customs.

Chinese Customs To Observe When Moving House

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Hi, I’m Eileen — a mum of two teenagers, aged 18 and 16, and a passionate lifestyle blogger sharing snippets of family life, creativity, and culture since May 2012. My daughter lives with visual impairment, and our journey together has shaped much of the heart behind this blog.

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